The Bear Party

The Bear Party

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NYC's biggest and longest-running weekly erotic parties for bears, cubs, daddies, otters, chubs, chasers and friends. 18+


Weekly Schedule

Every Monday 6-9pm in Midtown, $27*

Every Tuesday 12 noon-3pm in Midtown, $22*

Every Wednesday 6-9pm in Midtown, $27*

Every Thursday 12 noon-3pm in Midtown, $22*

Every Friday 6-9pm in Midtown, $27*

Every Sunday 1:30-5:30pm at Paddles Club in Chelsea. Paddles is located at 250 W 26th St NYC, $25*

Plus some Saturdays. Saturday parties are $25* and occur either in the afternoon or late at night. Saturday parties are usually at Paddles (address above), but once a month we meet in Brooklyn. Upcoming Saturday parties:

1/25 from 1-5pm at Paddles, NYC

2/1 from 1-5pm at Paddles, NYC

2/1 from 10pm to 2:30am at Paddles, NYC (Yes, same day as above!)

2/8 from 1-5pm at Paddles, NYC

2/15 from 2 to 6pm in Park Slope Brooklyn

2/22 from 1-5pm at Paddles, NYC

2/29 from 1-5pm at Paddles, NYC

*discount for guys who are 30 or under: pay just $20 for any party.

What You Need to Know

Our parties are either in Midtown, Chelsea or in Brooklyn. We don't publish on the internet the address of our Midtown or Brooklyn location for the sake of security. If you want to attend, simply enter your email address below and you'll get a welcome email listing all of the parties and their locations.

Arrive during the first hour of the party.

Clothes check is included; please tip for good service.

No alcohol or BYOB.

Dress code:

Monday through Friday on 38th Street you must be naked or in a jockstrap. No underwear; jockstraps only. Leather and fetish gear are ok. 

Saturday and Sunday at Paddles or in Park Slope you may wear your regular underwear, a jockstrap, gear or go naked.

At all parties, no shirts or pants allowed. Long underwear or wife-beaters are not allowed. You must wear some kind of shoes at all parties.

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