The Bear Party

The Bear Party

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NYC's biggest and longest-running almost-daily sexy parties for bears, cubs, daddies, otters, chubs, chasers and friends. 18+


Weekly Schedule

Every Monday 6-9pm in Midtown, $27*

Every Tuesday 12 noon-3pm in Midtown, $22*


Every Thursday 12 noon-3pm in Midtown, $22*

Every Friday 6-9pm in Midtown, $27*

Every Saturday 1:30-5:30pm at Paddles Club** in Chelsea, $25*

Every Sunday 1:30-5:30pm at Paddles Club** in Chelsea, $25*

* Includes clothes check. Discount for guys 30 or under: pay just $20 per party.

** Paddles is located at 250 W 26th St basement level, between 7th and 8th Avenues, NYC


We also have special events in addition to the normal weekly calendar above.

Upcoming Special Events:

Bear Party Does Brooklyn. We return to the Park Slope basement space Sunday 3/22 from 7pm to 11pm. $25 (or $20 if you're 30 or under) + mandatory $2 clothes check. Popular with Brooklynites, Long Islanders and many from elsewhere because of its setup, location and laid-back attitude. Sign up to get address.

Nowhere Bear at Nowhere Bar. An underwear or jockstrap party at a bar. Friday March 27th from 10pm to 4am. $5 cover all night. $2 coat/clothes check.


What You Need to Know

Our parties are either in Midtown, Chelsea or in Brooklyn. We don't publish on the internet the address of our Midtown or Brooklyn location for the sake of security. If you want to attend, simply enter your email address below and you'll get a welcome email listing all of the parties and their locations.

Arrive during the first hour of the party.

Clothes check is included; please tip for good service.

No alcohol or BYOB.

Dress code:

Monday through Friday on 38th Street you must be naked or in a jockstrap. No underwear; jockstraps only. Leather and fetish gear are ok. 

Saturday and Sunday at Paddles or in Park Slope you may wear your regular underwear, a jockstrap, gear or go naked.

At all parties, no shirts or pants allowed. Long underwear or wife-beaters are not allowed. You must wear some kind of shoes at all parties.

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